According to Psychology
today, the term marriage is the process by which two people who love each other
make their relationship public, official, and permanent. It is the
joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until
death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by divorce. Of course,
over the course of a relationship that can last as many as seven or eight
decades, a lot happens. Personalities change, bodies age, and romantic
love waxes and wanes. And no marriage is free of conflict. What
enables a couple to endure is how they handle that conflict.
Yes no marriage is actually
free of conflict,its just the ability of the couple to know how to solve and
endure the conflict. The thing couples fail to understand is NO THIRD PARTY
when you are having issues in your marriage.The beginning of marriage failure
is when you start involving "third party".. I believe that conflicts
should start and end inside the home and not carrying it outside your home,for
crying out loud,no one would ever respect your husband / wife when u keep
opening that mouth of yours..No one followed you when dating started and
finally made up your mind that you would become and live as one..Please try and
be wise in handling conflict and learn to avoid using the "D" word,if
our parents can go through the thunderous weather of marriage,why can't we..Men
love your wives,see them as weaker vessels not as your competitors,never you
criticize your wife,love and cherish her because she is the mother of your
children. Women,love your husbands,be submissive and respectful,don't nag
him,see him as your father not slave..
Hmmmmm nice one Esthy and thumbs up for you.
ReplyDeleteKeep the good work moving and I pray that God Almighty should enrich you more with Wisdom and understanding.
Shalom!
Engr. J.E.
thanks Engr., Amen
DeleteNice 1 wify...the grace of God is very abundant for you to excel. More grease to your efforts.
ReplyDeletethanks my darling hubby, My number one fan *eyelashes*
DeleteLove this piece, Awesome! God help us to get it right cos Divorce should never be an option!
ReplyDeletethanks bells MUA, yh D word should never be an option in marriage
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