Monday 23 September 2013

The word "Marriage"




According to Psychology today, the term marriage is the process by which two people who love each other make their relationship public, official, and permanent. It is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by divorce. Of course, over the course of a relationship that can last as many as seven or eight decades, a lot happens. Personalities change, bodies age, and romantic love waxes and wanes. And no marriage is free of conflict. What enables a couple to endure is how they handle that conflict.
Yes no marriage is actually free of conflict,its just the ability of the couple to know how to solve and endure the conflict. The thing couples fail to understand is NO THIRD PARTY when you are having issues in your marriage.The beginning of marriage failure is when you start involving "third party".. I believe that conflicts should start and end inside the home and not carrying it outside your home,for crying out loud,no one would ever respect your husband / wife when u keep opening that mouth of yours..No one followed you when dating started and finally made up your mind that you would become and live as one..Please try and be wise in handling conflict and learn to avoid using the "D" word,if our parents can go through the thunderous weather of marriage,why can't we..Men love your wives,see them as weaker vessels not as your competitors,never you criticize your wife,love and cherish her because she is the mother of your children. Women,love your husbands,be submissive and respectful,don't nag him,see him as your father not slave..

6 comments:

  1. Hmmmmm nice one Esthy and thumbs up for you.

    Keep the good work moving and I pray that God Almighty should enrich you more with Wisdom and understanding.

    Shalom!

    Engr. J.E.

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  2. Nice 1 wify...the grace of God is very abundant for you to excel. More grease to your efforts.

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    1. thanks my darling hubby, My number one fan *eyelashes*

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  3. Love this piece, Awesome! God help us to get it right cos Divorce should never be an option!

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  4. thanks bells MUA, yh D word should never be an option in marriage

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